can't connect

[Snatch_Daddy]

i just purchased flashFXP cause xbox-scene members believe that it is the best ftp program for xbox related stuff. i can't connect to it at all, i keep getting an error

here's the error

WinSock 2.0 -- OpenSSl 0.9.7d 17 Mar 2004
(L) Connecting to xbox -> IP=192.168.0.111 PORT =21
(L) Connection failed (10053: Software caused connection abort)

here is my ipconfig settings:

Windows IP configuration

Host Name - italian-stalion
primary dns suffix -
node type - unknown
up routing enabled - no
wins proxy enabled - no
DNS suffix search list - virtual-shot-by-shot

Ethernet adapter xbox

connection-specific dns suffix -
description - dlink...
physical address - 00-0D-88-31-44-75
ip address - 192.168.0.15
subnet mask - 255.255.255.0
default gateway - 192.168.0.15

ethernet adapte wireless network connection
connection-specific dns suffix - virtual-shot-by-shot
description - SMC2662W v.2 ....
physical address - 00-04-E2-46-F2-09
dhcp enabled - yes
autoconfiguration enabled - yes
ip address - 192.168.1.104
subnet mask - 255.255.255.0
default gateway - 192.168.1.1
dhcp server - 192.168.1.1
dns servers - 192.168.1.1
lease obtained - monday, october 25, 2004 12:28:23 pm
lease expires -mnday, november 01, 2004 12:28:23 pm

on normal conditions the xbox ethernet is disabled
when i try and connect to the xbox i disabled the wireless adapter and enable the xbox one - it says that i'm connected, but this doesn't work.
I tried ftping to a website with the xbox ethernet disabled but that didn't work either

i'm running xp pro SP2, windows firewall is disabled

help please!!!!

[Snatch_Daddy]

i'm using flashFXP v 3.0 build 1015.
there is a router on the system, but i have a direct connection to the xbox, so that should not have anything to do with it.

i can ping the xbox, and i can ftp to it using internet explorer, but not with flashFXP.

[MxxCon]

you can ftp to 192.168.0.111:21 using IE but not ffxp?
if ffxp configured to use any proxy servers?

[Snatch_Daddy]

right now it is set to option 0. none, is that correct? should it be something else?